"The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated."
American Philosopher and Writer
1842 - 1910
When was the last time you received a compliment? Today? Last week? Last month? When was the last time you gave someone a compliment?
We all have a need to appreciated and thanked for what we do. Unfortunately, our society is very poor at delivering compliments and praise. And people praise artists and writers even less. If you want to receive more compliments, you must give more compliments. We live in a very negative world where people feel it is kool to be in your face putting you down. If we are going to change the world, we must first change ourselves.
I know that many writer groups are very negative and hostile. They seem to enjoy tearing each others work to shreds. And that does nothing but discourage the new writer. Writers need a lot of support, encouragement and nourishing. I don't believe in criticism -- negative or positive. Most writers and artists are their own worst critics. They can tell you all the things that they did wrong before you do.
I challenge you to look for the good in others and compliment them on what they do good. Compliment the good you see in their writing or their art. Be sincere and honest. Don't lie. Even in the worst of painting you should be able to find something to compliment honestly. So start today. Don't wait. It will cost nothing, but the positive rewards will be great.
We all have a need to appreciated and thanked for what we do. Unfortunately, our society is very poor at delivering compliments and praise. And people praise artists and writers even less. If you want to receive more compliments, you must give more compliments. We live in a very negative world where people feel it is kool to be in your face putting you down. If we are going to change the world, we must first change ourselves.
I know that many writer groups are very negative and hostile. They seem to enjoy tearing each others work to shreds. And that does nothing but discourage the new writer. Writers need a lot of support, encouragement and nourishing. I don't believe in criticism -- negative or positive. Most writers and artists are their own worst critics. They can tell you all the things that they did wrong before you do.
I challenge you to look for the good in others and compliment them on what they do good. Compliment the good you see in their writing or their art. Be sincere and honest. Don't lie. Even in the worst of painting you should be able to find something to compliment honestly. So start today. Don't wait. It will cost nothing, but the positive rewards will be great.
