Brene Brown — Humanize Work

Harley King — New Habits

Harley King — Wants vs Needs

Malcolm S. Forbes — Learning

Walt Disney — Dreams

Robert Louis Stevenson — Becoming

Henry Kaiser — Opportunities

Tom Flores - Commitment

Ralph Waldo Emerson — Growth

Ben Sweetland — Journey

Are you enjoying the journey?

Henry Ford — Opportunity

Henry Ford built his first car inside a rented building. When the car was finished, he realized that the door was not big enough for the car to go through so he destroyed an entire wall. He did not let the wall stand in the way of test driving his first car. Do you learn from your mistakes? In every failure is an opportunity to grow and change. When something knocks you off your feet, pick yourself up and begin again.

James M. Barrie — Happiness

Marcel Proust — Gratitude

Andrew Carnegie — Actions Speak Louder Than Words

Vincent T. Lombardi — Success

Walter Bagehot — Persistence

Abraham Lincoln — Hustle

George Bernard Shaw - Circumstances

St.Francis de Sales — Be Yourself

Eleanor Roosevelt — Age: a Work of Art

In one sense, we all are artists. We create the lives we lead. While we may not have any control over what happens to us, we do have control how we respond to what happens to us. And how we respond creates the person we become. When you reach the end of the road one day and you look back at your life, what is the legacy you have left behind. What kind of person have you become? Will you be a grouchy, grumpy old drunk or a kind, caring matriarch? Will you dance with laughter or worry and fret over the fact that your husband never puts down the toilet seat? We all make choices in life and those choices create the lives we lead.  

Our lives are a work of art. What color are your memories? How many wrinkles line your dreams? Do your hopes have arthritis? What are you doing today that will create your legacy tomorrow? What decisions are you making today that will form the core of your character tomorrow? Life is about growth and change. What lessons are you learning that will change your life? Your life is a canvas. Pick up your paint brush and start painting. Live the life today that you will be proud of when you are 103.

Winston Churchill — Responsibility

Demosthenes — Small Opportunities

Harley King — Top Ten Books I Read in 2018

In 2018 I read 44 books. Seventy-seven percent of the books were fiction, 23% were non-fiction. Of the novels, 10 were mysteries, 10 were fantasy, 9 were contemporary fiction, 3 were young adult and 2 were science fiction,  Of the non-fiction books, 4 were biographies and memoirs. Eighty-five percent of the books I read were e-books, 15% were physical books.

Here are the 10 best books I read in 2018.

10.  True Places by Sonja Yoerg.

An excellent contemporary novel set in Virginia. The story is told from the point of view of various family members including a mother, father, brother and sister. The world of this family is shattered by Suzanne, the mother, discovering a starved young girl, Iris, at the edge of the road. Suzanne takes Iris to hospital and when she recovers into the family home. This simple act of kindness challenges the family to evaluate their relationships with each other.

9.  Go by Kazuki Kanishiro

In the United States, people tend to think of racism as something between whites and blacks. Unfortunately, racism and discrimination are not the purview of the United States only. Kazuki Kaneshiro, in this novel, addresses how Koreans living in Japan are treated by the Japanese. The main character is a Korean boy who falls in love with a Japanese girl. When he tells her that he is Korean, she rejects him. This is fascinating story and well worth reading.

8.  The Storyteller's Secret by Sejal Badani

Rarely do we ever know the stories of our parents lives and understand what events made them who they became. And we almost never learn much about the lives of our grandparents. Jaya, the main character in this novel, has the good fortune to learn the crucial stories of both her mother and grandmother. This is an emotionally powerful novel and will touch people's hearts.

I did find the action to be very predictable. I guessed a key event long before it happened. About a third of the way through the novel, I made the mistake of reading a few of the reviews. One mentioned how the physical details of India were inaccurate. Having never been there, I could not judge for myself, but the review colored my reading of the book. I began to question if the author had ever been there.

Even if the physical details are not accurate, the emotional power of the story makes it worth reading. If you enjoy love stories, you will enjoy this book.

7.  Banana Rose by Natalie Goldberg

I have been wanting to read this book for years and I finally did. I fell in love with the creative works of Natalie Goldberg more than 25 years ago. I have read Writing Down the Bones 4 or 5 times. I was rereading Wild Mind for the third time when I started reading Banana Rose. I have read two of her memoirs and her book on painting.

In many of her books on writing, Goldberg talks about the importance of detail in writing. And she practices what she preaches in this her only novel. She builds the story through attention to detail. I know some people have been disappointed with this book. I was not. I think she did a great job of telling the story. I liked the character of Banana Rose.

Not much happens in the story. We move from one day in Banana Rose's life to the next. The book is framed by the death of a friend. Goldberg discusses the writing of Banana Rose in the book, Wild Mind. She admits that the main criticism of her editor is that the book has no plot. In the rewrite, she added a slight plot, but don't expect great movement.

If you choose to read this book, go slow and absorb the details. The enjoyment is in the details. And read Wild Mind along side it.

6. 1968: The Year That Rocked the World by Mark Kurlansky

This is a great book that should be read by everyone who was alive in 1968 as well as those who have been born since. Kurlansky has done his research and gives us insight into many of the events both in America and around the world. As someone who lived through many of these events, I enjoyed reminiscing.

5.  The Man Who Cried I Am by John A. Williams

Growing up in a small farming community in central Illinois in the 1960's, I had little access to bookstores.  The closest was 25 miles away in Peoria.  Since I was dependent on our small local library and our church library for books, I subscribed to the Doubleday Book Club.  One of the books I bought through the club was The Man Who Cried I Am.  I cannot remember if I read it, but I am sure that I probably did not fully grasp the meaning of the book given my small town upbringing.  

Somewhere over the years I gave the book away.  I purchased the ebook a few weeks ago and was surprised to find the introduction by Walter Mosley, one of my favorite writers.  Written in the 1960's, the novel tells the story of a black writer during the last three days of his life.  Max Reddick, who is dying of cancer, is in Europe for the funeral of a fellow writer.  The book is filled with memories of his life in the 1940's, 1950's and 1960's, including the women he loved, the people he knew and the challenges he faced living in the United States and Europe as a black man.  The book skips back and forth in time and the reader must play close attention because there is no warning that a time shift has occurred.

While the world has changed a lot in the last 50 years, much of it remains the same.  The hearts of people are still corrupt, mean-spirited and violent.  The forces that assassinated Kennedy and King are still with us.  Now crazy people kill young children.  Racism and violence are still with us.

This book should be read by all who have trouble understanding what it means to be a minority in the United States and by those who fail to understand what is behind the Black Lives Matter movement.

4.  Bud, Not Buddy by Christopher Paul Curtis

Are you looking for a great novel to read with your child? Read Bud, Not Buddy! This historical novel is set in Michigan in the 1930s. We encounter Bud four years after his mother has died. He has been in and out of foster homes and is currently in an orphanage from which he escapes. In the story Bud travels from Flint to Grand Rapids in search of his father. The story is about his adventures along the way.

My ten-year-old daughter read it in school so she read it to me. This is an amazing novel that parents should read with their children.



3. The Accidental President: Harry Truman and the Four Months that Changed the World by A. J. Baime

Years ago a workshop facilitator asked the group I was in: "Who was president when you were born?" I like most of the people in the class had no idea. The thought had never occurred to me. When I discovered it was Harry S. Truman, I began to read books, eight in all, about him including the comprehensive Truman by David McCullough. I have even read the boring Meeting at Potsdam by Charles Mee. I was not expecting to learn anything new about Truman and was surprised when I did.

The Accidental President is a surprisingly exciting book to read. Baime takes the reader through the first four months of Truman's presidency. He faced challenges that few, if any, presidents have faced upon taking office. The U.S. was fighting a war on two fronts in Europe and in Asia. He was thrown into negotiations with two savvy politicians, Churchill and Stalin, over the fate of Europe. He learned about the development of the atomic bomb and had to make a decision about whether to drop the bomb or not.

People often say that Truman was unprepared to be President. He had only been in the Senate for two terms. Truman was never in Roosevelt's inner circle and Roosevelt kept him in the dark after he was elected Vice-President in 1944. He became President with little knowledge of what was transpiring in the international arena. Yet, Truman was prepared in several ways. He was a student of history and what other leaders had done in difficult situations. He was a decision-maker and did not hesitate to make the difficult decisions. He had a natural instinct for politics. He also had a strong moral character, yet knew when to compromise.

Baime opens the book by taking us through the day when Roosevelt died and Truman stepped into his shoes. He follows this up with a section that shares to story of who Truman was and where he came from. Even in this section, I learned somethings about Truman that I was unaware of. Baime then proceeds to walk us through the riveting first four months of Truman's presidency and the challenges he faced.

I highly recommend this book to anyone in business who finds himself in the midst of a crisis. I also recommend the book to anyone interested in politics, history and the presidency.

2. The Golem and the Jinni by Helene Wecker

The Golem and the Jinni is a great first novel by Helene Wecker. Set in New York City in the early 1900s, the novel combines the mythology of both the Jewish and Arabian worlds with the real world of recent immigrants to the United States. Wecker has done her research on historical New York and the immigrant cultures portrayed. The book took seven years to write. At its heart, this novel is love story with ups and downs and barriers to overcome. Can mythical creatures from two different worlds find happiness together? Be sure to put this book on your reading list.

1. The Widows of Malabar Hill by Sujata Massey

I have read five of Sujata Massey's books prior to reading The Widows of Malabar Hill. Four of those books involved Rei Shimura, a half American, half Japanese antiques dealer and set either in Japan or America. My favorite was The Kizuna Coast set in Japan after the real-life tsunami. Sujata was born in England to parents from India and Germany, and was raised mostly in St. Paul, MN.

I have also read India Gray, a collection of short stories involving characters from India. My favorite short story, Outnumbered at Oxford, introduces Perveen Mistry in England. I could not wait to meet Perveen again in The Widows of Malabar Hill. And I was not disappointed. This novel is rich in historical detail. The novelist fills in what happened to Perveen prior to traveling to England to study law and what happened after she returned. 

Perveen's family had migrated from Iran to India where they are a small religious minority (Zoarastrian). Perveen becomes the first woman in India to practice law. Her character is inspired by real life women who became the first female lawyers in India.

I highly recommend this mystery novel for its rich historical detail and its powerful female character.