1885 - 1945
If you have done your best, then pat yourself on the back and celebrate. We are never going to be perfect. We need to give it our best shot and stop worrying. We are sometimes too harsh on ourselves and we must learn to accept who we are and what we have done.
Now if we have not done our best, that is a different story. We need to always push ourselves to do our best. No loafing or pretending. But once we have done our best, then we need to learn to let go.